Spiritual men's life coaching for living out and proud

You came out and now you're experiencing new challenges. You'd like to live your life unapologetically and on your own terms, but trying to meet the demands of gay culture to be someone or something else has left you feeling unsure. Working with a gay life coach who understands the unique challenges gay men face can help you be the best version of you.

Spiritual gay & bisexual men's life coaching to life live unapologetically

Gay life coaching for unlocking your full potential

You've come a long way as an LGBT person. Maybe you thought you were finally free to live a joyful life as a gay man. Then you started to notice that everyone around you wants you to look or act a certain way. It seems that gay or straight, everyone is judging your life experience and expression. To make things more challenging you might also be experiencing:

  • Boredom or frustration with your career goals
  • Loneliness and the desire for community and quality friendships
  • Frustration around dating and a deep desire to meet "the one"
  • Questions about the existence or nature of a higher power and struggles on your spiritual journey
  • Unresolved questions or doubts about your sexual identity
  • Pressure to adapt or change (to lose weight, be less fem, etc)

Believe me! I understand because as a gay man, I've had similar experiences in my life. That's why I offer life coaching services to queer individuals. I've learned a few things on my journey which have given me a unique perspective on the specific needs of gay and bisexual men.

Living your best life means that things are going well across all parts of your life. Below are 6 of the main areas in which gay or bisexual men sometimes struggle. We can work on issues in any or all of these areas to help you live life unapologetically out and proud.


Are you dissatisfied with your job or career? Maybe you feel the desire to have a positive impact on other members of the LGBT community and are considering a new career. Or maybe you're struggling with making the decision to be out at work.

Many gay and bisexual men struggle with work-life balance or finding meaning in their work.


Dating can be an extremely frustrating experience for a lot of gay and bi men. Finding opportunities to meet gay men can be daunting. Not to mention that sometimes finding someone that shares your values or ideas about relationships can be tough. And if you're a bisexual man, you may feel that you're not fully accepted by other gay men.

And what if your idea of a relationship doesn't fit in the neat box of monogamy or marriage? We can explore these issues in coaching.

Community & Friends

Making friends as an adult can be difficult. It's sometimes even more difficult to make friends in the LGBTQ+ community. 

Often people find the community unaccepting or fragmented which can make it difficult to find true connections. Through coaching, you can develop new strategies for connecting with other gay and bi men.


You might be feeling like you want more meaning in your life. Maybe you wonder if there's a greater purpose that you would like to fulfill.

Spiritual coaching is the perfect environment to really explore the idea of purpose and your place in the world.


Many gay or bisexual men have experienced trauma at the hands of organized religion. You may have been turned off to spirituality initially but now you're wondering about a higher power. You might be looking to find your own spiritual path that honors all of who you are. Spirituality can contribute to your emotional well-being when it's supportive and loving.


Many gay or bisexual men have experienced trauma at the hands of organized religion. You may have been turned off to spirituality initially but now you're wondering about a higher power. You might be looking to find your own spiritual path that honors all of who you are. Spirituality can contribute to your emotional well-being when it's supportive and loving.

Why work with a gay life coach?

As a gay life coach, I face many of the same challenges every day. I've been on this journey as a gay man and spiritual seeker, and I understand the pressure you might be feeling or the unique challenges you might be facing. When working with an LGBTQ life coach, there's a level of comfort and shared experience that makes the work easier. 

About Me


I'm Julian Crosson-Hill, ACC. I came out as a gay man during college in the late 1980s. Ever since then, I've been on a journey toward living my most authentic life full of connection with other gay and bi men, purpose, spiritual growth, and success. Several years ago, I took the next step by leaving a career that no longer excited me, in order to become a life coach. Today, I'm the owner of Priest of Inanna, LLC and an International Coaching Federation certified life coach in private practice.

Book a free clarity call with me to learn more about spiritual gay and bisexual men's life coaching. During our call, we'll talk about the areas of your life that you'd like to improve, what the life you'd like to live looks like, and what's standing in your way. Whether you decide to work with me or not, this call will give you greater clarity about where you are and where you're going. You'll also have an opportunity to discover whether I'm the right coach for you.

The process

How this works


Clarity Call

The process all begins with the clarity call. On this free call, we'll explore where you are in life and where you want to go. This call will also help you decide if working with a gay life coach is the right choice for you.


Discovery Deep Dive

Our first session will be 90 minutes long. During this session, we'll take a deep dive into the things that are getting in your way and what's not working. We'll also set some measurable goals for our work together so we know what the journey ahead will be.


Coaching Forward

We'll meet either weekly or bi-weekly for a 60-minute coaching session. As we partner to uncover new insights and opportunities, we'll work on meeting the goals you set in the Discovery Deep Dive or on any other issue that arises and is getting in the way of your personal growth.

What you get each month

I offer spiritual gay and bisexual men's life coaching on a monthly rate. Each month you'll receive the following:

Coaching Sessions

Based on the package, you will receive weekly or bi-weekly coaching 1:1 coaching by phone or Zoom. Sessions can be recorded. 


Throughout our work together I'll share various resources with you related to living life unapologetically and boldy.


As your coach, I'll be in your corner to support and cheer you on. You can get support between session via email or through voice messaging in the Voxer app.

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)

What is spiritual gay and bisexual men's life coaching?

Spiritual gay and bisexual men's life coaching is a creative and collaborative process in which a client partners with a coach to discover previously unknown and untapped resources and insights for personal development. As a gay life coach, it is my desire for LGBTQ individuals to have the tools to live their best lives.

What is the difference between Spiritual coaching vs life coaching?

The primary difference is in the tools that your coach uses. Spiritual coaches still use many of the same tools that a life coach uses. But a spiritual coach will also use spiritual tools like guide visualization, mediation, and others. A spiritual life coach incorporates the client's idea of a higher power and the client's relationship with their higher power into the coaching process.

Will you support me outside of our sessions?

Absolutely! As your coach, I'm in your corner to cheer you on, encourage you, listen to you vent, and in general be supportive as you move into living life unapologetically. The best way to receive support from me outside of our sessions is to send me a voice message through the free Voxer app. Voxer allows me to respond to you with a voice message which allows me to more freely communicate with you. 

How much does spiritual gay and bisexual men's life coaching cost?

I know that you're probably thinking that working with a gay life coach is expensive. You might find it to be more affordable than you think. Working with me is priced by the month (with a 3-month minimum commitment). Most clients pay between $350 and $700 per month depending on how frequently we meet.

How long does it take?

I would plan on a minimum of 3 months to see the best results in coaching. Most of my clients work with me for 3-6 months at a time. But you'll never be rushed. I've had clients work with me longer in the past so that is certainly an option for you. We'll work at your pace and take as long as you need.

I have another question.

I'm happy to answer any questions you might have about spiritual gay and bisexual men's life coaching. You can use the contact form on my contact page to send me your question. I look forward to hearing from you.

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